"Love ceases to be a pleasure
when it ceases to be a secret." - Aphra Behn
Recently four teenage girl students consulted
me to clarify their queries on career. During the course of career counseling,
the discussion went around the difference between men and women. I said, “Men
are like mangoes while women are like apples”. One of the girls curiously asked
me, ‘Why men are mangoes and women are apples?’
I said that men mature slowly while women mature quickly and women can
understand various aspects much better than men as they are blessed with
certain advantages by God such as multitasking, rapid thinking, assertiveness
and emotional intelligence. And they are good at interpersonal skills, soft
skills and empathize with others. While men are blessed with physical power
women are blessed with mental power. After hearing my justification, she was
very much excited with my ideas and burst into ecstasy and asked, “Sir, do you
one thing?”
I immediately asked her, “How do I
know what is there in your mind?”
She asserted, “When a boy loves a girl
everybody knows in the college but when a girl loves a boy nobody knows it EXCEPT
that girl!”
I agreed with her comment and I
thought of writing an article and that’s why you are reading this post now
Usually men are attracted by women’s physical
appearance and they often look at women’s beauty followed by her behavior. In
contrast, women observe the voice modulation of men and look whether men are
genuine or not. They look for intensity in voice, observe tone and tenor and
look beyond the faces of men. Above all,
women look for sincerity and integrity among men apart from character. Most men
exhibit their love to women by their excitement and it is quickly reflected
through their body language and especially through their facial expressions.
And everybody will come to know easily that the man loves a particular girl. Most
boys don’t realize this and exhibit their love to the girls quickly in front of
others. Most boys often disclose to their friends that they love a particular
girl and it becomes a great talk in the college campus. However, women rarely
express their love to others, and are conscious about others especially society
and don’t reveal their minds easily. Of course, it depends on cultural aspects
also. Especially in a country like India most of the girls don’t express their
love openly due to various reasons including the fear of society, shyness, rejection
or ridicule. It is because of these reasons most of the girls don’t disclose
their love even to their best female friends.
Hence, boys! Be careful when you love
a girl. Remember that others are watching you keenly. Don’t get overexcited.
Control your emotions. Don’t disclose your cards. Don’t put the girl you love
in a tight spot in front of others by saying ‘I love you’. Empathize with her and demonstrate your love
as per the situation to win her heart and live in her heart forever.
Dear girls! Understand the problems of
boys whose maturity levels are slow. Talk to them. Open up yourself. Respect
their excitement and feelings. Remember that to be loved is more important than
loving boys who ignore you. Convey your love and reciprocate accordingly to
build connectivity, compatibility and chemistry.
I hope you have enjoyed reading this
article. And I dedicate this article to boys and girls who truly understand the
feelings of ‘Love’ and respect “LOVE”.
“When you trip over love, it is easy
to get up. But when you fall in love, it is impossible to stand again.”― Albert
Einstein
“The heart is like a woman, and the
head is like a man, and although man is the head of woman, woman is the heart
of man, and she turns man's head because she turns his heart.” ― Peter Kreeft, Jesus-Shock
Note: You will find more such interesting
stories in my next book due to be published with a tentative title “Striking
Stories on Love and Romance: Spread the Message of Love”.
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